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How to take charge of your life again and earn the respect of the one person who matters most. Part 3 of 3

Thursday, January 03, 2019

Understanding What Brings Dreams Into Reality.

What keeps us from actually living the life and achieving the happiness we dream about?

In my last post, "What keeps us from actually living the life and achieving the happiness we dream about" we learned the 3 things that keep us from getting what we want out of life.

In this post, we'll learn what to do about it.

Can you imagine what it would look and feel like to have your logic and emotion combined, working together?

To use all you know in the most powerful way possible?

To leap out of bed every day, having more energy, smiling, excited about life and knowing you are doing exactly what you are created to do?

That is an amazing way to live!

It is fun, it is energizing, and you own the space that you are in because you radiate amazing energy everyone wants to be a part of.

You are living the dream! (none of the normal sarcasm included)

If you were living this way right now, would you be able to create more Time, Money, Love and Freedom in your life?

I KNOW you could.


To feel this way every day is no simple trick.

How many years of education, athletics, work etc. have invested in the old system?

10? 40?

If anyone tells you they have a quick fix to that many years of bad habits, systems and programs you should respond with the following quote,

“Quick fixes are named for how long they stay fixed!”

What does that mean?

You didn’t get to where you are at in your journey in a day and you won’t get out in a day.

Quit looking for the magic book, pill, or surgery that will make it all better again.

It doesn’t exist.

To begin the journey of rebuilding our life into the dreams WE want, our first step has to be to get some real direction.

I'm not talking about what Dad or Mom or Teacher said you "should" do.

(In fact, why don't we go ahead andstop letting people "should" on us all together!)

Instead I'm talking about finding the direction, the path, the calling that we've been unknowingly training for all our lives?

We call this path, our Master Purpose.  (this ain't the purpose your mommy taught you. . .)

In order to understand your Master Purpose, you have to be able to draw meaning and value from the experiences of your life.


We’ve seen ourselves and our clients discover how even the bad things that happen to us contain valuable lessons for us.

Have you experienced a painful event in your life that still penetrates your thoughts to this day?

Is there an unsolved event from your past that you play over and over in your head for no apparent reason?

Do you engage in escape behaviors such as video games, binge watching or eating, or worse to avoid thinking?

If so, you are in good company.

Many of us struggle with these very same issues and very few know why.

It turns out, the reason these thoughts continue to play in our head is because we are actually fearful they will repeat themselves and we don’t know how to prevent it.

So we are constantly trying to solve the problem again and again without finding a good solution.

This causes stress, anxiety, and illness because we stay in a constant state of agitation.

The GREAT news is, using the right techniques and strategies, we can go back and understand these painful events, solve the problems we’ve been desperate to solve, and use the blessings from that learning to understand the training and experience we’ve received in our life.

You see, we are so much more than our education, resume and job history.

EVERY event in our lives happen FOR us, not to us.

When we can truly see these gifts for their full value we become powerful to connect to, lead and inspire those around us.

When we see how everything we’ve been through, has brought us to exactly where we need to be in our life and you step into the fullness of the experience and purpose your were created for;

you can then earn the respect of the one person who matters most and can make the biggest changes: YOU.

It took us over 40 years of combined research, education and experience to truly discover our Master Purpose in life.

At the time of this writing we have over 31,000 live hours of coaching experience with clients.

We’ve learned exactly what knowledge and logic we need to “be happy” and have the skills to help our clients permanently end the battle within.

We are also masters of combining logic and emotion.

We have created the fastest system possible to permanently end the battle within, discover the Master Purpose you were uniquely created for and create the path you can follow for the rest of your life to make sure you are finally living up to your full potential.

There are no quick answers here, but there is a path forward.

It’s a long and satisfying journey that teaches you to how to harness the power from the experience only YOU have had in this world and how your unique gifts are exactly what the world needs and how you can connect to others around you needing your skills and leadership.

We know you can do it.

We’ve seen the results in every one of our clients.

We know how powerful you can be.

The question is:

Are you made for M.O.R.E. in this life?

Do you ever have the feeling that you are made for more than the everyday grind, struggles, arguments, frustrations, fears, avoidance and anxious behaviors you are feeling?

That you are destined for something special?

Something AMAZING!

We believe we are Made for M.O.R.E. in this life because Managing Oneself Results in Excellence.

And Managing Ourselves is the only way we can ever reach our own dreams.

When we know exactly why we do the things we do and how we can use our thinking, feeling, and experience to accelerate us forward in our life, anything is possible!

THIS is where the road BEGINS.

You’ve already taken the first step in the map that leads to the rest of your life.

The greatest adventure of all time!

We know you are hurting, we know you are frustrated, and we also know that YOU are made for MORE!

So if what you've heard from me over these last 3 post has inspired you to take action in your life, we have a special offer for you.


Jon Gunzel and Trina Gunzel at the Mandarin Oriental for Tea on Mother's day in Las Vegas, Nevada

Jon and Trina Gunzel

Jon and Trina are experts at helping high achievers and top performers create sustainable and predictable success. Their Stories to Success System trains clients to break through their OWN obstacles so they can unlock their passion, finally live into their full potential and create a MASSIVE IMPACT in the world. If you are interested in learning more about creating lasting success in your own life, business or relationship, please reach out and request a free strategy session today!

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